We all come to a point in time that we try to distinguish if we are doing what we were meant to do. There are feelings internally that are conflicting and making you feel ill at ease whether it be with work or within relationships. These feelings are your intuition that is telling you (or rather internally screaming) that something needs to change. These are signs that you need to look deeply into what is going wrong or what is missing in your life. Then make a conscientious effort to make a change where you feel better about yourself and where you are in life.
We always know what we need to do as we are always moving forward. Forward movement will always be consistent and if issues are not dealt with, then you will feel anxious or not being fulfilled with how your daily life is going. In life we always have options. You can choose to stay in the same environment that you are in or choose to take a different perspective. When you look at things or situations from a bird’s eye view, the right choice can be made.
At a bird’s eye view, look at all the moving pieces and what is involved. From that perspective you can see that there are always two ways to manoeuvre. Every day you make choices of moving left or right. Neither direction will be wrong, it will always be the right choice. Some make you take a detour from your goal and others will project you quicker to your end goal. You always end up where you were meant to be. Even if you do not make a choice, that is essentially a choice in allowing things to happen versus anticipating your choice.
Sometimes people do not move forward in their lives because it requires them to act out of character. However, that character is yours to create however you see fit. You are not meant to be put in a box and labelled. You make the decision to be who and what you want to be without being defined by how others see you. If you hold yourself back due to how others will view your choices then only you will be left behind living in regret.
Remember that judging others and their actions are biased with your own skewed version of your past experiences. Everyone is different and their actions will not fall within the expectations that you have. The joy is in the journey, not in the unmet expectations because we are not perfect, nor should we expect others to be. Differences with others is what brings joy and possibilities of new discoveries about yourself and each other.
Joanne Robinson
