Find your inner happiness and abundance will come to you. When you harbour dark thoughts about past experiences it only serves to create bad energy. When we take in bad energy, your life will in effect create health issues that affect you in your daily life. We all have bad experiences, some more than others. The ones that go through the most trauma are meant to help others go through their tough times as well. That is why opposites attract sometime, to heal each other as the contrast allows you to look inside yourself and improve.
When like attract like it means that there is something to learn from the other. When opposites attract, they are the counterbalance in your space. If you think of magnets, you put two positive ends together, they repel, when you switch one completely around you now have opposites that attract each other and stick. The repelling side of the magnets are when two dysfunctional personalities get together and have a toxic relationship. Opposites are like a scale where they balance each other out.
Similarities are attractive to same like minded people, it is a time in your life where you do not want to face the truth of your personality and the way you are living. So this means you are staying in your comfort zone and not pushing yourself to be better. There are many reasons that you may want to do this. Comfort is very important for people, especially people who have had traumatic backgrounds. Comfort is predictable and no work required. To grow means to live outside your comfort zone and try to discover who you truly are. When that happens you learn to appreciate all that you have experienced in life and love the person who you have become.
When you experience that self-love, you are open to experience an opposite type of relationship. One that is not filled with the comfortableness of your previous life, but of new experiences completely unknown and foreign to you. When you are comfortable within yourself, you are able to venture out of your norm and experience something that is new with a clear understanding that this is growth. This is an opportunity to get to know yourself even that much more. When you are at this point, you will find like-minded people however characteristically they may be different then you. This in essence will make you learn more about what you are capable of.
Learning to trust yourself that you are more than capable of experiencing something that is different is refreshing. It is like watching a bird fly and land on a small branch and it is awe inspiring that they have such faith that they will be able to make the landing. If only we moved in life that way, imagine how much we could accomplish. The knowing that you will land safely no matter where you choose to land is having ultimate faith in the unknown. The unknown is the sweet spot of life.
Trying to be present in all that you do is difficult and challenging. There is a lot of reprogramming that is required in order to achieve this. However, if you try to consciously do it on a daily basis, great things can happen. To let go of control helps relieve stress from your body and allows you to enjoy life more fully engaged. Control is a lack of faith that good things will happen to you. Let loose and enjoy the ride of life.
Joanne Robinson
