Moving forward towards a better life requires that you look within yourself and relearn to trust that you know what is best. When you have faced struggles and are unsure as to how to proceed, take the time to see what went wrong and determine how you can fix things to move through your circumstances in order to improve your life rather than repeating the same cycles that obviously didn’t work for you.
When things don’t go our way, we have a tendency to blame others rather than looking inward as we all have a part to play in our own demises. Granted there are some things that can happen that definitely are beyond our control, we certainly were not the creators of that experience. However when it comes to career and romance, we certainly do contribute to our outcomes based on our choices.
We can choose to remain stagnant and repeat the same ways of doing things and hope that we will have a different result or we can choose to take a leap of faith and trust in your ability to choose a better option. When we make the conscious effort to receive a different outcome we have to proceed in a way that is different from your previous conditioning and that requires trust. Trust in yourself that you will know what’s right or wrong for you without repeating what is comfortable for you. This is the only way that you can get a different outcome on your choices in your life.
If you are not satisfied with the work that you do, then you need to look for something else that you would like to do and go for it rather than remain in your current situation and being miserable. It may mean taking a pay cut for a job that you love doing to eventually attain a higher status in that field, but you have to choose to do it as no one will hand it to you. The same thing can be said about your relationships as well. If you have attracted certain types of people that are not complimentary to your sense of self then you need to take a look at yourself and the choices that you have made and make the decision to choose something that you are not used to and see if that works better for you. Trust yourself that you will make the right decision and you are able to make that difference in your life.
Joanne Robinson
